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September 15, 2021 – 18:45

The first three matches of the fourth round of the Kosovo Super League in football have ended.

In the derby match between Drita and the Balkans, the match ended in a goalless draw. This match was characterized by few scoring chances.

Balkan coach Bekim Isufi agreed with the point won in the derby against Drita.

“I think the two teams had studied each other well and for this reason there were few cases during the match. Maybe, the fans are not happy with the result, but they should be happy with the game shown on the field. Both teams did not want to make mistakes and it was a well calculated game. Maybe, at the beginning of the match we were a little better, but then we had difficulties and Drita had a slight dominance. In the end, I can say that the draw was a real epilogue. “Let’s not forget that Drita has an extremely strong team”, said Isufi.

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September 05, 2021 – 23:20

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Kosovo coach Bernard Challandes said that he is not happy with the result against Greece, but with the team’s game.

He said it was not all perfect but the players have shown good mentality.

“I have a double feeling. We accepted the game but then we played football. It is clear that we wanted more to verticalize, to play short, to hold the ball. We started differently than before but we need to work harder. It was not easy to find space in their game. “We talked at the beginning of this gathering to play as Kosovo, as a team”, he said.

He said that citizens who will have the opportunity to play against Spain should use the opportunity.

“Astrit is our attacking player and at the moment we have Vedat Muriqi and there is competition but it should be known that he is part of the group and I do not know when he will have the moment”, he said.

When parents feel negative emotions towards their child, the cause is mostly his inappropriate behavior. Understandably, parents become frustrated because they are tired of constantly repeating the same stories, shouting and arguing. Or they are annoyed by the way the child treats them, siblings or teachers at school.

All parents have expectations of how their children should develop and behave, and when those expectations are not met, it can be very painful for them.

It should be borne in mind that in the period of adolescence, the formation of the child’s identity implies separation from the family, and that can sometimes turn into very unpleasant, irritating and inappropriate behavior of teenagers. Because the bond between parent and child is so strong, the process of separation often becomes very tense and overemphasized for both parents and children.

Many parents often find it difficult to discern that they do not actually like the child’s behavior, and not the child as a person. This is not strange because the child’s behavior somehow becomes part of his personality. It is not possible to say where a person ends and where behavior begins. In the end, however, the words come out of your child’s mouth, you can see that facial expression and hear that tone in the voice that is sometimes full of hatred and contempt.

The good news is that when your children are rude or uncomfortable and angry, there are effective ways to avoid taking their behavior personally. Psychologists advise that parents, instead of being unhappy and feeling guilty, should try to establish a healthier relationship with the child and accept him as he is.

Be aware of your feelings

Don’t hide your emotions because you feel guilty or think it’s wrong if you don’t seem to love your child enough. You don’t have to accept those emotions – it’s enough to realize that sometimes you have them. Change cannot happen until you are honest with yourself. Just ask yourself, “How do I feel and why?”

It is also important to accept the fact that you will not always like your child, nor will you.

Try to determine the cause of your feelings

Take time to think about the root cause of your feelings. Are there external reasons that affect your child’s behavior, such as problems at school? Or is it more related to your expectations?

Maybe you don’t like the child because he is so different from you. Or you may not like it because it behaves badly, is defiant and unproven and wreaks havoc on the house. These are all understandable reasons to feel dislike for your child. Why would you love someone who treats you badly?

If this is the case, try to remember that you do not like that behavior, not the child. We can love our children and hate their behavior, but sometimes the two mix.

If you look closely, you may realize that not liking your child has more to do with you than with the child – because it’s basically your reaction to his behavior.

Sometimes, as parents, we are moved by memories of our own childhood, which causes feelings of inadequacy, fear or anxiety, and then we project those feelings onto our children. For example, if you were severely criticized as a child for not having all fives, you may find it difficult when your child has poorer grades. Keep this in mind and don’t let it control your parenting.

Try to discover other causes that cause such feelings in you. For example, you may be passing on your feelings about your partner to your child. Your partner (or you) may not feel that the child is responsible for their behavior.

Manage your expectations

Accept your child as he is and you can move towards establishing better relationships. If the child is not what you expected, then consider your expectations.

It is important to keep in mind that after all, the only person you can control is yourself. Learn to draw a line between your child’s behavior and your reactions. Try to be calm and control your emotions. No matter how the child behaves, promise yourself that you will try to stay calm.

Get to know your child better

Find time for something fun. Learn what a child likes and dislikes and what causes him to behave badly. Try to listen to him without condemnation – children will surely react negatively when they feel that they are under pressure and supervision. The child will appreciate the opportunity to open up and trust you with how he feels.

Try to stay positive

Talk to your child as if you are not judging him, even when you say ‘no’ or punish him. Don’t frown and address him in a calm tone that sends him the message that you care about him.

Staying positive can be difficult, especially when you are frustrated and the child defiant.

However, be as positive as possible when dealing with a child because he easily senses your negative feelings and internalizes them quickly – or rebels aggressively. And remember, the expression on your face and the tone of your voice send a stronger message than your words.

Focus on what is good and start building relationships with your child on positive examples. Don’t be obsessed with negative things or try to change them at any cost.

You will build a much better relationship if you try to praise him and support good behavior. Often as parents we have atomic reactions. We should try to pay more attention to what we say. Remember: a child needs a coach, not a critic.

Finally, bring more playfulness and less seriousness into your interactions. Try to accept them as they are and love them and don’t worry too much.

Promise yourself that you will not criticize the child

We are not even aware of how many times during the day we say an objection to someone’s behavior. We automatically criticize children, and half the time we don’t even know how to do it. So do your best.
Notice when your child is doing something well. Point out the good sides of the child’s behavior and describe to him what you noticed.

For example, you can say, “It looked like you were going to hit your brother, but I noticed that you refrained and walked away. How did you do it? Well done!”.

If you succeed in this, it will help you to establish mutual respect with the child.

You are completely different personalities

What if you and your child are completely different people? Maybe your child is not the person you would choose as your friend. You may be too different or too similar. Problems arise when someone disappoints you every day and you try to change them. So he falls into a vicious circle.

Keep in mind that your child is not your friend. Your role as a parent is unique, and you can act friendly without becoming friends. Realizing that you don’t have to be a friend to your child can help you understand who your child is – and accept him or her.

By taking responsibility for your emotions and hard work, you show the child that you want things to be better. Tell your child, “I know we didn’t always get along in the past because I was too hard on you. I apologize and I’m working on it. ”

Calm down, accept the child and help him become the person he was supposed to be.

Cozman posted a photo of his girlfriend.

Rapper Cozman is a name very dear to the public, who tends to keep his private life away from public attention.

But, finally he has decided to formalize the new love affair, being photographed in the embrace of his partner.

Initially the couple were photographed in front of the mirror next to each other, as the rapper’s girlfriend covered her face with the phone.

Finally, Cozman posted another photo of Fjolla, publicly expressing his love for her.

In that photo, his girlfriend appears collecting cherries while the rapper was standing in a corner looking at her. / News

Adriana Matoshi since she made public her relationship with the African footballer, has been highly rumored in the media.

Through posts on social networks, she has shown how happy she feels to have a man like Keith in her arms, writes Indeksonline.

In the recently published image she received a comment.

“It is not in my upbringing to be prejudiced, but at least you should have gotten one at your age and your color, not even Italians who have a different culture get younger, but get the appropriate ages.”

The MP did not hesitate to shut up, writing that the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, even though he had an older wife, had a happy life together.

“Muhammad (peace be upon him) had an older wife than him, and it is said that they were very happy together, we have found a common language so the mass is not bothering us, I believe that you should not either”, u she expresss./Indeksonline/

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March 29, 2021 – 00:31

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The representative of Kosovo in football suffered a loss in the first meeting of the qualifying round for the World Cup “Qatar 2022”, writes “Zeri.info”.

“Dardanët” lost to Sweden with a result of 0: 3 at the stadium “Fadil Vokrri”.

Following this victory of the Scandinavian National Team, its selector, Janne Andersson, has also been declared.

He said that against Kosovo his team played better than against Georgia, as he had a few words for the striker, Zlatan Ibrahimovic.

“Unlike the match against Georgia, tonight we played in a controlled and clear way. “I feel good when I see the team like this,” said Andersson.

“Zlatan Ibrahimovic is fantastic, he does not care if he scores, but only to contribute to the team”, concluded coach Andersson. /Zeri.info

Dua is back with the latest photos.

In Dua Lipë’s family today there is a reason to celebrate and this is because of her father’s birthday

Dukagjin Lipa on this date celebrates his birthday and received many congratulations from family, friends and colleagues.

A very special wish was made to him by his daughter Dua, who summarized some memories she had with him from childhood.

“Happy birthday dad cool, I love you”, she wrote above these images, where she appears next to her father.

In one of the photos, Dua is seen sleeping next to her father, when she was little, about one or two years old.

As far as Dukagjini is concerned, there is a big change in appearance, especially in the hair./kosovarja

Former US President Richard Grenell’s former envoy to Kosovo-Serbia dialogue reacts to former German diplomat Wolfgang Ischinger after the latter told Grenell that his term had expired, advising him to leave Kosovo to its people.

Through a Twitter post, Grenelli accuses Ischinger of telling him that he has given the Iranians and Russians a platform they do not deserve.

“Wolfgang, you live by giving foreign policy advice. You have given the Iranians and Russians a platform they do not deserve,” he wrote.

Grenelli also addresses Ischinger by telling him not to shut up “homosexuals”, adding that he is willing to compare his progress with that of the former German diplomat.

“Do not silence homosexuals from participating in something you do freely. It is homophobic. I am also happy to compare our progress with yours whenever you want,” Grenelli said.

On the occasion of the 13th anniversary of Kosovo’s Independence, the rapporteur for Kosovo in the European Parliament, Viola Von Cramon congratulated the Albanians. In this wish, she also mentioned the dialogue with Serbia.

Through a post on “Twitter”, Von Cramon said that Kosovo is full of potential.

“Happy Independence Day # Kosovo! You have taken many steps along the way and what lies ahead of you is not just easy. But, your country is full of potential. “Instability often seems to be the rule, not the exception, but for society #polarization and more #union will be more important”, wrote Von Cramon.

She also said that in addition to fighting corruption and developing the economy, dialogue with Serbia should not be neglected.

“Kosovo wants to move forward on its European path and there is a lot of work ahead. Inside it, you have to fight corruption and help the economy, but dialogue with Belgrade is something you can not neglect. “Without an agreement with Serbia, there is no prospect of EU integration,” she said.

Meanwhile, Von Cramon has stressed that no one should wait for a better future ahead, without commitment work and as she says without compromises.

“No one should expect a better future ahead without work, commitment and even without compromises. Now there are new opportunities, use them! And enjoy your vacation today! “Happy Independence Day!” Wrote Von Cramon. / Voice